Tree, garden and water memorials in Urbandale
By our estimate, around 18,000 households in Urbandale share their home with a dog or cat, and roughly 1,500 of those pets die each year. More of those families now ask about planting or water memorials. Here's how to do it well.
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Urbandale, Iowa
Where a living memorial fits in Urbandale
Urbandale's older ranch-house neighborhoods have mature trees and deep backyards, and many memorials end up there: a flat stone under a maple, a small statue by the garden bench, a biodegradable urn buried beneath a new shrub. It suits the unhurried feel of those older streets. Families in townhouses tend to prefer something indoors, like an urn on a shelf, a framed print or a piece of jewelry.
Cold is the main enemy of outdoor memorials in central Iowa. Water seeps into porous stone, freezes, and splits it; resin fades and cracks. Granite and bronze shrug it off for decades. Newer lots on the west side often have compacted clay and sprinkler lines just under the turf, so find out where they run before digging. Setting a marker flush with the lawn keeps it clear of mower blades.
Many people near Urbandale have a lake, pond or river they walked with their dog every day. A water-soluble urn released there can feel exactly right. Before you do it, check who owns or manages the water: a private pond needs the owner's say-so, a public lake is usually managed by a state or county agency, and some reservoirs supply drinking water and don't allow anything to be released. Choose a quiet time and let nothing float away.
About 48,570 people live in Urbandale, which makes it the 12th-largest of the 27 Iowa communities we cover. Des Moines, roughly 9 miles off, is the closest larger centre, and a share of the providers who cover Urbandale run from there.
Our pages for Clive (2 miles), Johnston (5 miles) and West Des Moines (6 miles) describe the same choices from those towns' point of view, and the providers overlap, so a quote from one often covers Urbandale as well.
Our estimate
18,000
Estimated dog- or cat-owning households in Urbandale
How we calculated this
48,570 ÷ 2.5 = 19,428 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 18,000. Multi-pet homes count once.
Our estimate
1,500
dog and cat deaths per year in Urbandale, our estimate
How we calculated this
18,000 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 1,500 a year. Treat it as a minimum.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
Where these figures come from: American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry and Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science.
Why cremation culture in Iowa shapes your options
Faith shapes these choices in Iowa, where cremation covers about 63.6%[5] of deaths and burial much of the rest. Some traditions that prefer burial for people have no view on pets; others do. If this matters to anyone in your household, ask a faith leader you trust. A planting urn puts the ashes back into the ground, which many people find sits comfortably with a burial tradition.
The Iowa percentage above is from NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) and refers to human funerals. Treat it as context for Urbandale, not as a count of pets.
Choosing the right month to plant in Urbandale
A Urbandale winter is a useful waiting room. With 5 months of freezing lows, you can mix the ashes with compost in a covered bin or tub in a garage or shed during the cold months and let the mix rest. One gardening guide suggests at least 90–120 days[6] before planting, which fits neatly between a winter loss and spring planting. Test the pH before the tree goes in.
Freezing and thawing through January, February, March, November and December can heave a newly planted tree out of the ground in Urbandale. If you plant in autumn, mulch well after the first frost to keep the soil temperature steady, and check the base of the tree in spring. A spring planting avoids the problem entirely and gives roots a full growing season before the next winter.
What bio urns and aquamation cost in Urbandale
The container the ashes come back in can quietly add to the bill. One Virginia crematory, for example, sells private cremation at $189 with a temporary container and $225 with a wooden urn[7]. If you're planting, the plain option is all you need. Wooden pet urns alone run about $30–$150[8] in one national guide, money that could buy a good tree for your Urbandale garden instead.
Rather than repeat the price table on every city page, we keep one for Iowa: Iowa costs. What each service includes is on the services page.
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Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Rules worth knowing in Iowa before you scatter
Cremated remains aren't a health hazard in the way a body is, which is why planting ashes in your own garden is rarely restricted. Public places are different. Parks, nature reserves, beaches and waterways in Iowa each have a manager with their own policy, and some don't allow scattering or planting at all. A short email before the day saves an awkward conversation.
To find your county or city office in Iowa, start with the official Iowa local government directory.
The Iowa page sets out who oversees pet cremation and what the state says about burial and scattering. Urbandale's own bylaws can sit on top of that, so ask before you dig.
What to do first, and what can wait for the right season
- If you're remembering more than one animal, settle at the start on one shared planting or separate ones. Either works, but once the ashes are combined there's no undoing it.
- Label each container clearly the moment it arrives, name and date on the lid, which matters most when the sets come home a long way apart.
- Choose a bigger planting area when there are several sets of ashes; a long hedge, a cluster of shrubs or a few fruit trees gives the minerals more ground to disperse into.
- Keep a spoonful of each in separate keepsakes if anyone in the family wants to remember one animal on its own.
- Plan for the pets still living with you. A new planting that smells of bone attracts diggers, so protect it for the first few months.
- Add a marker for each name, or a single stone carrying all of them, so anyone visiting understands who is remembered there.
Remembering your pet, in Urbandale and wherever you go next
Some Urbandale families hold on to ashes for months before deciding, which is completely fine. When they do decide, they often split them: one urn for the house, a small portion for a garden, and keepsake jewelry for a grown child. If you'd like a clay paw impression or a lock of fur, say so at the start, since it has to be taken beforehand.
The services page is the place to compare what is included, or see what other families chose in the poll results, there are guides for the big decisions and articles for the details, try the free planning tools. If you live between Urbandale and Sioux City, Des Moines, Davenport and Cedar Rapids, either page applies. Every other community in Iowa, and all of the United States, is listed too.
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Free tools to help you plan
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Memorial tree finder
Pick a tree for a planting urn that suits your climate, space and pet.
Aftercare options compared
Compare private, communal and water cremation with burial on cost, timing and what comes home.
Questions people ask
How does Urbandale's weather affect pet aftercare?
July is the hottest month in Urbandale, with average highs around 86°F, so prompt collection matters most then. Average lows drop below freezing in January, February, March, November and December, which can make digging a grave hard until spring.
Where are the providers that serve Urbandale actually based?
Some are local, and some run from Des Moines, about 9 miles away. That is normal for a town this size. What matters is the collection time they quote for Urbandale and whether the drive is priced into the total, so ask both up front.
How do Iowa attitudes to cremation compare?
NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) puts the Iowa human cremation rate at about 63.6%[5]. We show it on the Urbandale page because pet aftercare choices tend to track it: where cremation is normal for people, communal and private pet cremation are both easy to find.
Can a provider from a neighbouring town collect from Urbandale?
Usually yes. Clive is about 2 miles away, Johnston is about 5 miles away and West Des Moines is about 6 miles away, all inside a normal collection radius. Get the mileage written into the quote so there is no surprise on the day.
How long does it take to get ashes back for planting?
Most private cremations return ashes within one to two weeks, and water cremation cycles themselves take 12–20 hours[10], so allow a similar time. In a smaller place, if the cremation happens in a larger centre such as Des Moines, it may take a little longer. Planting can wait, so there's no need to rush.
Is water cremation better for the environment?
It uses much less energy: pet aquamation is claimed to use about 90%[11] less energy than flame cremation, and it uses about as much water as 1–3 pet baths[12] per pet. The strongest carbon figures come from studies of human funerals, not pets, so treat them as a direction rather than a promise. You still get ashes back for a bio urn.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected Iowa's cremation rate at 63.6% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] Gardening Know How advises letting an ash/soil-amendment mixture sit for at least 90 to 120 days before planting. Gardening Know How — Planting With Cremains: Is There a Safe Way to Bury Ashes, 2024.
- [7] Heavenly Paws Cremations in Chantilly, Virginia, sells private cremation packages at $189 (temporary container), $225 (wooden urn) and $300 (wooden photo urn), each including a paw print and fur clipping. Heavenly Paws Cremations – Packages, 2026.
- [8] Memorials.com puts wooden pet urns at $30–$150. Memorials.com – Pet Urn Cost Guide, 2025.
- [9] If just 10% of U.S. pet cremations moved to aquamation, about 4,200 t CO2e a year would be avoided. Our estimate: 1.5M x 10% x 31.3 kg x 90% reduction. How we calculate.
- [10] A PET-550 aquamation cycle takes 12–20 hours for a single pet and 14–20 hours for segregated or communal cycles, with up to 14 compartments. Bio-Response Solutions — PET-550 Aquamation System product page, 2026.
- [11] Pet aquamation is described as available across all 50 US states, and is claimed to use about 90% less energy than flame cremation. Be a Tree Cremation pet aquamation guide, 2025.
- [12] Aquamation uses about the same water per pet as 1–3 pet baths. Veterinary Sustainability Alliance — Aquamation, 2024.
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